Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Black Tie Accepted?

We sent out our wedding invitations this week! 
I've gotten a few questions as to what 'Black Tie Accepted" means. 
No, men do not have to wear a tux.
No, women do not have to wear an evening gown.
Relax! 
More or less, the request for black tie accepted on the invitation was made to encourage people to get dressed up and feel fancy.  We want our guests to feel just as special as we do on our day!

Here is an excerpt from an article that may clarify the definition for you better than I can:
For a black tie optional event, guests can always wear the same attire as for a black tie event. For guests who want to go a bit more casual, gentleman can wear a dark suit with a white shirt and conservative tie. (Note: Not every etiquette expert thinks the "optional" phraseology is necessary, but it does serve to emphasize that a tux is not required.) Women can feel free to wear dressy separates if they choose. *women can wear cocktail attire, the longer the dress the more formal.

Basically, you wear whatever you want just as long as you've got some comfortable dancing shoes to keep you on your feet all night!  We are so excited to celebrate with you! 

A few more notes -
Yes, the reception is following the ceremony at the same venue.  No driving!
Parking will be on the (well lit) street.
No, we aren't having a sit down dinner.  Hors d'oeuvres.
We are registered at Bed, Bath, and Beyond.

We have reserved a block of rooms at a hotel near the gallery for any of you that may be interested.  The accomodations may come in handy for our out of town friends.  There is a discounted rate available if you make the reservation within the next two weeks and mention the 'Bynum-Ewers' wedding.

If you need directions or have any other questions, please feel free to ask away.
205.567.7928 - call or text


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